To reach trust means to build, constantly, a basic ground, some supports and always remember the direction no matter the obstacles. We need to be understood and appreciated by others, and do we give the same indulgence we request? We don't need to be perfect, is more than enough if we work for what we want to achieve together. Life is all about permanent change, and working to improve ourselves is just what keeps the change as a constructive behavior. Do we need another next to us? No, not necessarily. We wish that the other person was at our side and this is enough to keep us on a right track.
Most of the images I see represent people on a constant fight to pass trust from one to another, it takes more to keep trust on both sides. And this constant fight causes a war oriented behavior and in the end the loss. What do we need to keep trust inside and between? Fair play: we need to be aware that what's harming the other may have a harmful effect on us too. Save the good things, even if they come in small quantities and ignore the bad faults we discover in each of us. Bad parts come and go, goods remain and improve themselves. And they always lead to positive results. Always.
Imagine the other person is you, so there's no need to harm him/her in any way. Let them improve and let them discover, help them without demanding. When it doesn't work from the start continue sending (not throwing at them) messages, or even more make up better ways of solving this. Patience with yourself and confidence in favorable achievements always clear the path to better. And there will always be enough room for better.
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